I think you should trust her if she seems fine about it. Iris doesn't seem like the sort of person that's gonna let you or anybody get away with treating her in a way she doesn't want to be treated.
[her fingers sort of twitch.]
I get that you're worried, though. It's not bad to be. Just don't beat yourself up over it.
puts his face in his hand for a second and groans. ] That's the problem, too, I don't know how she wants to be treated, cause she told me that she liked me, too?
[ this week has really been
so much? it really takes a lot of pressure to crack ichiro. he, in a term used by xie lian, is not sure whether to laugh or to cry. at least it probably can't get much worse?? we're down to teenage levels of problems instead of murdergame related problems so there's that. he's feeling a little better with that off of his chest.... beau was the right person to come talk to about this, even if it was involuntary (probably because it was involuntary?) ]
[why are teenagers like this!!!! iris is not a teenager, but listen. also don't look at her or her own romantic issues.]
Okay, like - like like? Or. Is she stringing you along? What the fuck is going on here. I don't see how you can have a conversation like "wow I like you!" and then not, like. Be dating.
[ HE DOESN'T KNOW EITHER STOP THIS IS NOT HIS FAULT also dont think we're not getting to otome young lady
anyway, with his face still in his hands: ]
She said - Beau, she had to like, pour a shot even to talk about it. I didn't even know she knew. [ it was like visible from the moon but okay go off i guess ] I think she "it's-not-you-it's-me"'d me? I'm pretty sure that's what happened, which is fine, I'm way more about her being comfortable and I'm not an ass, and so that was totally fine. I'm glad I wasn't, like, traumatizing her or anything like that, so I figured it'd be cool, we were fine, I'd try to... be more subtle, I guess - she like, backed off where she was touching my hand, too, so, boundary set, totally got the message, crystal clear.
...but then like five minutes later, she told me "it's not like I don't want to be with you" and I have no idea what to do at all.
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[her fingers sort of twitch.]
I get that you're worried, though. It's not bad to be. Just don't beat yourself up over it.
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puts his face in his hand for a second and groans. ] That's the problem, too, I don't know how she wants to be treated, cause she told me that she liked me, too?
[ this week has really been
so much? it really takes a lot of pressure to crack ichiro. he, in a term used by xie lian, is not sure whether to laugh or to cry. at least it probably can't get much worse?? we're down to teenage levels of problems instead of murdergame related problems so there's that. he's feeling a little better with that off of his chest.... beau was the right person to come talk to about this, even if it was involuntary (probably because it was involuntary?) ]
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Oh my gods.
[why are teenagers like this!!!! iris is not a teenager, but listen. also don't look at her or her own romantic issues.]
Okay, like - like like? Or. Is she stringing you along? What the fuck is going on here. I don't see how you can have a conversation like "wow I like you!" and then not, like. Be dating.
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anyway, with his face still in his hands: ]
She said - Beau, she had to like, pour a shot even to talk about it. I didn't even know she knew. [ it was like visible from the moon but okay go off i guess ] I think she "it's-not-you-it's-me"'d me? I'm pretty sure that's what happened, which is fine, I'm way more about her being comfortable and I'm not an ass, and so that was totally fine. I'm glad I wasn't, like, traumatizing her or anything like that, so I figured it'd be cool, we were fine, I'd try to... be more subtle, I guess - she like, backed off where she was touching my hand, too, so, boundary set, totally got the message, crystal clear.
...but then like five minutes later, she told me "it's not like I don't want to be with you" and I have no idea what to do at all.
[ mixed signals!!!!!! MIXED SIGNALS!!!!! ]